Help! My Board’s a Hot Mess: Common Nonprofit Board Struggles (and How to Start Fixing Them)

You know that moment when you’re presenting at a board meeting and you look around the room (or the Zoom)? One board member’s answering emails, another looks genuinely surprised to learn your nonprofit runs on donations, and someone just asked if the gala theme could be “Casino Royale” again.

Yup. You’ve got board problems.

Let’s say it together: It’s not just you. Almost every nonprofit leader I know has had at least one sleepless night wondering if their board was more harm than help.

So let’s break down some of the most common nonprofit board struggles—so you can name them, claim them, and start doing something about them.

1. “We Didn’t Know We Were Supposed to Fundraise”

This one’s a doozy. You think it's clear. They think it's optional. Cue: confusion, resentment, and that one board member who swears their “network” is donation enough.

Why it happens: Board recruitment is often rushed or reactive. Expectations aren’t clearly laid out. The word “fundraising” makes people break out in hives.

What to do: Fix your onboarding. Spell out expectations—especially around fundraising—in writing. Give them the tools (and confidence) to do it well. Don’t assume they know how to ask for money. Teach them.

2. The Disappearing Board Member Act

They're full of enthusiasm at their first meeting—and then vanish into the nonprofit void. Emails go unanswered. Committee work? Forget it.

Why it happens: Life gets busy, yes. But more often? Lack of engagement. They don’t see how their presence actually matters.

What to do: Reignite the spark. Remind them why your mission matters. Ask for specific, time-limited help. Make board service feel less like a monthly obligation and more like a front-row seat to changing the world.

3. Too Much In the Weeds, Not Enough in the Strategy

You present a new program idea, and suddenly half the board is editing your budget line by line. Or debating the font on the brochure. Meanwhile, big-picture decisions sit untouched.

Why it happens: Many board members come from business or operations backgrounds and feel most comfortable in the details.

What to do: Set clear roles. Staff manages the day-to-day. The board looks at the horizon. Reinforce this gently—and often. Use dashboards and summaries to steer them toward strategic thinking.

4. The Boardroom Power Struggle

Ah yes—the board chair who thinks they’re the ED. Or the board member with big ideas and zero filter. Meetings feel like political warfare. You leave exhausted.

Why it happens: Power imbalances, unclear roles, and sometimes... just plain ego.

What to do: Go back to your bylaws. Clarify roles in your board manual. Build a strong relationship with your board chair—they should be your thought partner, not your micromanager.

5. Lack of Diversity—and We’re Not Just Talking About Race

Many boards are made up of the “usual suspects.” You know who I mean—same professions, same zip codes, same age range.

Why it happens: Board recruitment often happens through personal networks, and let’s be honest—people tend to recruit folks who look and think like them.

What to do: Get strategic about recruitment. Think about who you need to reflect your community and why their voices matter. Create a matrix. Fill in the gaps. And don’t just invite them to the table—make sure they feel heard once they’re there.

Final Thought: Progress, Not Perfection

Here’s the truth: No board is perfect. The goal isn’t perfection. It’s progress.

Start where you are. Name the problem out loud. And take one step at a time to make your board stronger, more engaged, and more aligned with your mission.

Your board isn’t just another task on your to-do list. With the right guidance and a clear path forward, they can become one of your greatest assets—energized, aligned, and ready to lead alongside you.

‍

Need more help turning your board from meh to mighty? Check out our toolkit of resources in our Etsy Shop. EBecause when your board works, your whole mission gets stronger.

Visit our shop here: https://www.etsy.com/shop/SuccessForNonprofits

‍

‍